I have created a notification with normal and expanded view having player controls identical to google play. However, i dont see the notification with play controls on the android wear.
I have tried to build notification with actionButtons rather than remoteViews. Now i am able to see every action as a separate card on wear. But i want the look like the google play on wear. I saw similar screen for VLC player too.
Please help.

You can create custom notification like I described here Android Wear : Custom Notifications
but best solution I think is to create full screen application for wear. you can check google sdk sample or github how to do it https://github.com/mauimauer/AndroidWearable-Samples/tree/master/SkeletonWearableApp
and send message to wear from phone when you need to open it. Good way to open wear activity from android phone you can find in DataLayer sample app.