I m trying to customize the infragistics' xamdatagrid and i want to implement a functionality specific to my project like enabling summaries in a specific way and i want to disable the setting the summary option which is a dependency property from the XAML .
I m just getting started on the WPF and would like to check if this is possible ? All i want to accomplish here is to hide the existing dependency property so that the user cannot set it through XAML .
You can't. There is no way you can hide the dependency property from the XAML not unless you are creating your own dependency property then just make it as a normal property. Since you mentioned you are customizing third party's control then no.