Below is my xml column with name xml_col. I want to select c11
<row id="GHKY5678" xml:space="preserve">
<c1>ITVC</c1>
<c2>USD1271500010001</c2>
<c4>1</c4>
<c5>USD</c5>
<c6>275000.00</c6>
<c7>20211001</c7>
<c9>008107318011021</c9>
<c10>Cr.Advice0085962</c10>
<c11>101100002684</c11>
<c12>1</c12>
<c13>USD</c13>
<c15>20211001</c15>
<c18>20211001</c18>
</row>
Please try the following solution.
A CTE simulates your real table.
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