Is there a way to see a (preferably graphical) view of the changes in a changelist|changeset? I am talking about a diff, showing only the removed lines in red, the added ones in green, with a few lines context, maybe highlighting the changed regions within lines in some way, listing unchanged files as unchanged, etc.
Is it possible preferably with P4Eclipse or worst case P4V or some external tool?
You can use P4 diff tool (Ctrl+D) which allows you to compare changelist against other changelist. You can try to make it work also via p4 command line tool and then you can filter differences you want to list.