Change the color of selected or selected but not active listview row when using uxtheme theough winapi

Question

im on Win10 and want to change the colors used when drawing a ListView control using uxtheme API.

But when drawing a ListView ListItem (LVP_LISTITEM) background through DrawThemeBackgroundEx it always gets drawn in this explorer like light blue when selected (LISS_SELECTED) or some light grey when selected but not active (LISS_SELECTEDNOTFOCUS).

Is there a way to have the selection color altered to some other color than this blue and grey which seems to be hardcoded in the theme?