I know too little about design to pull this off.
I am trying to make a UserControl with a special border. The border should look like this:

The header is a label (or textblock if is a must) with the content set at init time.
The border must stop before the header and start again after the header with a margin like described. The border will house a frame or grid which must confrom to the border shape (probably with a mask) The entire background must be transparent or alpha-ed (Color #000000XX) which is important because the header cant just "hide" the rectangle by being on top.
I'd appreciate directions to achieve this. Blend from visual studio 2012 is available.
Thank you
here you go
I made use of
HeaderedContentControlwhich allows you to have a header and a content which you can further use in a template of your preferenceresult
Update
try this template, I did try to achieve by pure xaml
other approach might include some code behind if this is not suitable
result