What argument or preference do you configure Chrome with, when using Capybara and Selenium, to disable this "Save card?" dialog?
browser_options = ::Selenium::WebDriver::Options.chrome
browser_options.add_preference <WHAT GOES HERE?>
Capybara::Selenium::Driver.new(app, browser: :chrome, options: browser_options)

The preference for the "Save card?" behavior is
autofill.credit_card_enabled.To disable it:
To discover the names of preferences like these in Chrome:
chrome://settingschrome://version/and note the "Profile Path"Preferencesfile found below the "Profile Path". This is a JSON file."autofill":{"credit_card_enabled":false,is the string I found when researching this answer. You can derive the preference name and value from this, e.g.autofill.credit_card_enabled=false.